"For example, if there is a contradiction between parents and women, it will cause difficulties for people to marry, and so on. Aren’t these all possible problems?"
Su Yonglin denied this statement and joined the discussion.
"The problem of Youan has always been that Confucianism pays attention to loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, and compulsory moral pressure covers up this problem all the time. It doesn’t mean that it has never been.
On the contrary, the longer the cover-up lasts, the total explosion will always occur, and the total explosion will be very horrible. It is better to take the initiative to untie it. We should take the initiative to face it instead of avoiding it. "
Xin Qiji opened his mouth and suddenly felt that he could refute Su Yonglin’s argument by his own method.
Reasoning, he can bow his head and admit that he is right.
"You said I had no opinion."
Refuting Xin Qiji, Su Yonglin looked at others again.
"Tell all your worries. Let’s open our hearts and have a serious talk about this topic."
Since Su Yonglin has said this, the staff will not worry about other problems, and tell them one by one.
Su Yonglin and Kong Maojie refuted them one by one, and most people admitted that their worries were not a reason to oppose reform.
So they didn’t say anything further, and even if they didn’t support the vote in their hearts, they wouldn’t give any objection.
The real thing stops here and it’s almost the same.
The last person who was worried was Shang Shenge, the legal department in the imperial court.
Shen Ge’s understanding of this problem is not general. He does not look at this problem from the personal perspective of the owner, man, husband and father, but from a fairly macro perspective.
So it’s interesting that he has problems.
"What you have just discussed is not the problem of men’s potential in the family, but also some family problems. I think these problems are all important.
I pay more attention to the fact that the parents ordered the matchmaker to say that the rule was born, so since it was born and operated for so many years, there was no big mess, which is naturally reasonable.
Where does rationality come from? Why did the ancients choose this road? Are they forced to accept or choose the best among the best? Have you considered this question? "
Chapter 943 Shen Ge decided against it
Shen Ge’s question is a bit interesting because they have not considered the situation for the time being.
So they looked at each other and said that they had never thought about it.
And Su Yonglin’s eyes lit up and he already knew what Shen Ge was going to say.
"I have to read widely because of work, and I found some historical materials about ancient times. After reading them, I have a very important feeling. I don’t know if you agree with me."
Shen Ge took a deep breath and said, "The so-called matchmaker’s words of parents’ orders were made by the ancients. In order to ensure the population of the country and ensure the family’s proper plan, it was forced to evolve gradually, and the rules did not exist from the beginning."
Shen Ge’s conclusion surprised everyone and caused a wide discussion. After about one incense, Su Yonglin ended the chaotic discussion and asked Shen Ge.
"go on with your opinion."
"white"
Shen Ge nodded and said, "I read ancient books in Qin and Han Dynasties, and it was recorded in ancient books that the government would hold group activities at a fixed time and place in the pre-Qin Dynasty. At the beginning of the activities, the government would organize a large number of young men and women to participate."
At that time, most young men and women will go to group activities and have fun with each other. They will take off their clothes to show off their bodies and become short-term couples during the activity period.
How long can this period last, that is, until an activity is held? If you are willing to maintain it, you may be able to maintain it, and then you will look for something new.
I feel ridiculous when I read this, but when I think about it carefully, I think that this may be the custom at that time. Ancient books have never recorded the marriage and marriage of men and women at that time. Perhaps there was no such stable in-laws at that time, and if there was no stable marriage, there would be no population growth without acquaintance between men and women.
However, national development and military conquest can organize large-scale group activities without obtaining enough population, hoping to increase the population and achieve development through such activities. "
"Where?"
Kong Maojie laughed. "Did you say so much?"
"Receiving is the key."
Shen Ge said, "Marriage between men and women can increase people’s stability and gain population, which is of great significance to the country. The person in charge does not want people and men to form a stable husband and wife to enhance national stability. This is a layer factor in parents’ matchmaking."
"So people?"
Kong Maojie seems to be aware of what Shen Ge wants to say.
"People, of course, are also very simple. Parents, men and women hope that their daughters can reproduce like themselves, inherit the family bloodline and give themselves a pension, which is not easy for ordinary people.
Don’t say that he only said that people who live a long life can live over 30, and those who live over 40 are elders in the countryside. So if you don’t get married early, how can you ensure the family inheritance? What if their parents are not dead and their daughters are dead? "
Kong Maojie knew what Shen Ge wanted to express.
"I see. What you want to say is that ensuring the country has enough population, people’s families and family elders will require women to get married early. Isn’t it because young girls can decide things that they have parents’ orders?"
"Isn’t it so? Zhou Wenwang got married at the age of thirteen. Comrade Sheng Mao Jie, you don’t think that 13-year-old Zhou Wenwang can properly handle his own marriage, do you? King Wen is still so poor? "
After Shen Ge finished, he stopped looking at Kong Maojie and looked at Su Yonglin. "Although there are mistakes in the words of the chairman’s parents, the position of the court is irreplaceable for maintaining people’s stability and promoting population growth."
I think your intentions are good, but once they fall into the hands of the people and are magnified by the limit, I don’t know how many men and women will be unwilling to get married, which will lead to family conflicts, not only because the people complain that the stability will be challenged, but more importantly, the population growth will be reduced
As a result, a large number of people’s families are more likely to be extinct and broken in ten or twenty years. If the elders have died then, it’s okay. If the elders are still dead and have no grandchildren, what will they do then?
The policies carried out by the imperial court led to such changes in the people, which led to broken families and serious losses. Everyone resented the imperial court, so should the imperial court admit its mistakes? If you admit it, how can you make up for it? "
Shen Ge finally hit the nail on the head by telling the whole story about his worries.
Su Yonglin thinks about problems from the perspective of people, while Shen Ge thinks about problems from the perspective of state rulers without personal feelings.
There is nothing wrong with both of them, but after all, a solution must be drawn to this problem, so we can’t just leave it here.
So Su Yonglin was silent for a while.
The meeting was disturbing and quiet for a long time.
Finally, with a deep sigh, Su Yonglin broke the silence.
"How difficult it is for people to be born. There are two people. One is to cultivate the land, and the other is to stay behind. The most important thing is to finish this. It is like being drained of oil, water and dry oil. It can be abandoned at any time and can die at any time.
It seems that if you want to stay, your life will be worthless, but it can’t be regarded as a person to see and kill directly, which is also called the life of civilians. Is it too cruel for you to do this to them now and in the past? "
Su Yonglin’s focus on the words "You used to be" is obviously to wake them up and not forget their own route.
There was a long and suffocating silence in the central conference hall.
Shen Ge felt inexplicably uneasy, but he still chose to stick to his own views and persisted in his hard-won opposition courage.